Friday, August 19, 2011

A fitting epitaph



Good morning! I was reading a passage in a book called "Bold Women in Michigan History" by Virginia Law Burns. In a passage about the abolitionist, Elizabeth Chandler, I read this poem she penned....

"The Silver Glade"

Lay me not, when I die, in the place of the dead,
With the dwellings of man round my resting place spread
But amidst the still forest, unseen and alone,
When the waters go by with a murmuring tone;
Where the wild bird above me may move its dark wing,
And the flowers I have loved from my ashes may spring.


As I think about my mother, whose ashes rest in the columbarium at Jefferson Avenue Presbyterian Church alongside those of my father's, I think this might have been her wish as well. We did take a portion of her remains, about a month after she passed, and spread them on the beach of Good Harbor Bay and out into Lake Michigan.

I think also of my friend, Kimber, who passed away just a year ago only 2 weeks shy of her 48th birthday. I visit her grave occasionally and I am always struck by the beauty of the cemetery ...and the complete waste of space! I think I may be more closely aligned with Miss Chandler's view. No offense to those who favor traditional burial but it is not for me.

Just what I was thinking today. Carry on.

Sunday, August 7, 2011

August....again


Greetings readers!


So here we are again in the confusing month of August. Why would I say that..? If I were to read over my blog entries from the last several years, I would see that pattern. Go ahead and read the August entries ... I'll wait.


Ready? See what I mean? It's the vacation month! Now, don't get me wrong, the Europeans have it totally right! I would like to take this entire month off for vacation. Maybe it would make me a more relaxed and motivated person. But there's the American angle to it. Not doing enough equals guilt. I never quite let that go. Maybe, as I approach my 50th year, I need to work hard on giving that up!

This past week has been a relaxed work week. Sure I have had students but no summer camp work till next week. I have traveled with my family up north to see my husband perform...check this out! And my favorite place on the earth...

Anyway...oh wait! Here is another great link!!

Okay, great! This was an entry that was supposed to talk about my feelings of anxiety of a slower paced month. What it is ending up to be is an ode to Northern Michigan and all that I love about it!

Okay...so that is a better read! Enjoy the links and enjoy sleeping in. I know I have!

Monday, July 25, 2011

SUMMER READING LIST - so far

COMPLETED (My own personal Book Club selections!) I hope this sparks you to pick up one of these fun books to tuck into your beach bag this season! Enjoy!!

HIDING IN THE SPOTLIGHT - a musical prodigy’s story of survival 1941 - 1946
Historic story of amazing skill and heroic efforts to survive. Written by the heroine's son Greg Dawson, it's a great read and I very much enjoyed it! It covers a most amazing true story of a young woman and her sister who used their piano skills to make it out of the horrors of the concentration camps.

THE PACT by Jodi Picoult
A little slow moving but lovely story of young love that cannot survive one girl’s obsession with suicide. I love her books and this was not my favorite but worth a summer read.

BENEATH A MARBLE SKY by John Shors
Great love story set against the history of the Taj Mahal. Was sad to see the end of this one. This uses history and builds a great story on bits of real lives.

MAJOR PETTIGREW’S LAST STAND by Helen Simonson
Great look into English life and an autumn romance. Very sweet!

ENCORE PROVENCE – New adventures in the South of France
by Peter Mayle
More fun in the sleepy villages of Provence. His books are such fun.

MESSENGER – the legacy of Mattie J.T. Stepanek and Heartsongs
by Jeni Stepanek
A tearjerker and an amazing story of strength and an angel. If you don't cry several times as you read then you have a heart of stone. This is an account that will remind you to savor every day.

THE SHADOW OF THE WIND
by Carlos Ruiz Zafon. This was an extremely enjoyable read of intrigue, mystery and romance and I would highly recommend it. Set is Barcelona this is an amazing tale that takes its' time revealing the twists and turns. A great read!

THE PIANO TUNER by Daniel Mason
A book with an unsatisfying ending. If this were made into a movie you would leave the theater thinking…”really”? It is a good read…just not the best ending.

EAST OF THE SUN
by Julia Gregson
Set in India in the 20s, it follows three women who come from different backgrounds and all experience a different piece of Indian culture. Nicely written and a great reminder of the faulty thinking of .."the grass is always greener..."

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Summer Traditions!

Here is how every summer starts on Long Lake!

Friday, July 1, 2011

July 4th


This is a great shot of Mal and I taken by my friend, Marci, on Memorial Day. Here we are, just days from the 2nd biggest summer holiday and I can't believe Summer is, once again, racing by. I think Shirley MacLaine said it best... We are all feeling like things are speeding up as we go into the once in a lifetime alignment of the planets.

Don't you feel it? Whew.

This Sunday - the 3rd - would have been my father's 90th birthday. What a shame he is not here to see it...but would he have been up to it? He often complained how things were a lot harder once he hit 80. (A fact my mother never accepted until she hit 80!) He made it to 84 before his body gave out. I sure miss him. He passed away on 04-05-06. Easy to remember, eh?

So here we are. Those left behind and struggling to stay in the stream without drowning in it. I hope you can see, in this picture, what keeps me afloat.

Happy 4th of July, y'all!

Monday, June 27, 2011

Garage sale ...and forward








Our garage sale. Sigh! A little over three weeks ago we held a garage sale. My first ever!! My neighbor, Nicole, came and worked it with me and that was a big help. We ran it from Thursday to Sunday with time off for church. My mother had talked about having a garage sale, the last couple of years of her life. She was really feeling the burden of her “things”, at that point. I was so very glad that she never had to come to the end of the money road. She would have been mortified. I know she was so afraid of becoming a “burden” to us. I always hated hearing her say that.

Anyway, I digress. Our sale went well and here’s the kicker. Because the weather was rainy on that Friday we extended it to Sunday - June 12th. Mom’s birthday! So ironic, eh? We still have a ways to go to get things cleared out. Purple Heart will get a lot of the things we did not sell.

I “Craigslisted’ one thing that I had that did not sell. It is an antique Chinese Wedding Basket. My friend, who lived in Hong Kong for about 9 years, brought it to me, on the plane, when I got married to Hubby #1.. It is a three tiered decorated wooden box that, traditionally, people filled with food or presents to the wedding couple and then presented to them.. I got any email and later a phone call from a lady who said she was a casting agent for a TV show called “Hardcore Pawn”. This, apparently, is a reality show – on TruTV – that is based on a Detroit pawn shop and the family who owns it. They also buy antiques and this woman searches for interesting items to present on the show. Their TV crew films there and this woman sets up folks to come with cool items to sell. They don’t tell the owners which are the walk ins and which are the set ups and so they can film their true reactions. She has asked if I would like to be on the show with my “basket”. I would show up at the place and see if they wanted to buy it from me. Haven’t heard back from her to see if the show producers wanted to go with it. Stay tuned!

This past week, we completed the first session of the Summer Theatre Camp series. Twenty five Kindergarten to third graders assembled and we worked with them to produce a show this last Friday. Mal worked it with me and ran the spot light fore the show! They did a marvelous job!! We both had to miss most of the first day as I needed to get Mal in to see the doctor. She had a bad case of strep. Ug!

Two Sundays ago,Father’s Day,was Music Sunday at our church. This is the end of the choir season and the last hurrah for the musicians till September. We go to a soloist format till then. This also signals the one year mark for Steve and he outdid himself! We were able to pull off some rather amazing music. He put it all together. In place of the sermon he pulled a number of readings and pieces that surrounded the idea of Creation as mediation.

Here is what we did..
Prelude "The Bringer of Peace" Gustav Holst – this was the organ prelude
Introit "Look at the World" John Rutter

And then…. Musical Meditation "Reflections on God in Creation" with readings by Susan Palo Cherwien, Gwen Frostic and from scripture
Not sure if you know the name, Gwen Frostic. (I pulled this off the Internet – it says it better than I could!)

Frostic was born in Sandusky, Michigan to Sara and Fred Frostic. When she was 8 months old she suffered from an unknown illness which left her with lifelong symptoms similar to cerebral palsy. Despite physical difficulties Frostic showed an early interest and aptitude for art. In June 1924 she graduated from Theodore Roosevelt High School in Wyandotte, where she was known for using a band saw to create event posters for her school. She continued her studies at Eastern Michigan University earning her teacher's certificate and gaining membership in Alpha Sigma Tau sorority. In 1926 she transferred to Western Michigan University and left in 1927 without completing her degree. She continued her artistic endeavors in metal and plastic, while occasionally teaching, but with the war came a lack of metal to work with and she turned to linoleum block carving. Frostic then turned her linoleum block carving into stationery goods and prints which led to her starting her own printing company, Presscraft Papers. In the early 1950s Frostic opened up a shop selling her prints, books, and other items in Frankfort and in 1960 she bought 40 acres of land in Benzonia with the intention of moving her and her shop. On April 26, 1964 her new shop was open for business and she lived there until her death in 2001.
Frostic was granted several honorary doctorates from Alma College, Eastern Michigan University, Western Michigan University, Michigan State University, and Ferris State University. In 1978 the governor of Michigan declared May 23 as Gwen Frostic Day in Michigan. In 1986 she was inducted into the Michigan Women's Hall of Fame.
Western Michigan University named its school of art after her in 2007, after her 13 million dollar bequest to the University in 2001. the Gwen Frostic School of Art. While given as an unrestricted bequest, the funds have primarily been used for scholarships for students and for the benefit of the arts and creative writing departments in particular, in respect to her lifelong pursuits.


Her prints are still used to create lovely cards, books and prints and her shop is a lovely nature preserve as well. It was the Gwen Frostic prints in his apartment that first told me that Steve was a quality guy! Mom and Dad loved her stuff and we always went to her place when we went up north. She was an amazing woman!!


"SONGS OF NATURE"
Robert Young/Lew Sarett – Two sections "God is at the Anvil" -"Hang Me Among Your Winds" - really lovely pieces!


"FROM LIGHT TO LIFE"
Aaron McDermid/Susan Palo Cherwien -"Earth" -"Fire" -"Water" -"Wind"

This was the killer piece. Lovely, simple poetry and very difficult music. Written for a choir of 50 (actually the National Lutheran Choir) we did it with our group of 19!! The four sections examine the four elements as God’s creation without worshiping Creation itself. It went very very well considering how long we had to get it ready!

"The Rain is Over and Gone" Paul Halley - a large part is my solo (It always beings down the house!)

Offertory "The Creation: In Native Worth and Honor Clad" Haydn (We have a great tenor!)

And to finish… Steve on the organ Postlude "Festival March" Humphrey Stark

It was a memorable day and the congregation was so moved. I was proud to bursting over all that Stephen accomplished. By the way, I sang very well too! We were the stars of the day – and humbled by the outpouring of love from our brothers and sisters. It made up for all the craziness of the week. We felt very blessed and very loved – rich indeed!

The one bad note was that Mallie had to stay home that morning. She was not at all comfortable when we got home and we got her in to the doctor and on medication. She recovered nicely once we got some meds into her.

That's the latest and greatest! This morning has been a delight - cool, quiet (sleeping child) a good book, a good cuppa and all is well. Happy Summer y'all!